Now that things are headed for what many of us expected and feared and warned about, lots of people have opinions about how we're dealing with the end of our lives as we had known them. After having built careers and homes and families on the trust that the country we learned about in school or the movies or on Schoolhouse Rock was a country of progress and laws and due process and human rights, we are finding out that it was all so fragile that a few very rich people united with a bunch of very craven people and a huge bunch of not very nice people can take what we built and turn it into dust. And we're mad.
So a lot of people are scared now, not of the rich-craven-not very nice people who are blowing everything we built to smithereens--no--they're scared of us being too mad about it. They've got all kinds of ideas about how loud we should be and what kind of flags we should be waving. It's what I call the "Don't make Daddy mad" strategy promoted to soothe the "I've got really nice stuff please don't break anything" anxiety rampant among some very comfortable nervous talkers.
Once again, Dems and some Progressives either don't really believe in a pluralistic, multiracial democratic republic and are looking for a workaround, or they are kidding themselves into thinking there is something we can do that is nice enough or reasonable enough to keep the bad guys from doing what they want to do. That if we only Good Guys! hard enough, the country will wake up one morning and think, "I've been on the wrong side all along." Best of all, it won't cost or break anything.
Ironically, that's exactly what a lot of frustrated Democrats rejected in 2024 when they stayed home. They knew, as anyone should, that this level of infection does not cure itself; it requires aggressive intervention, and if you're not part of that solution, you're part of the problem.
It is astounding that Democrats still exist who think there is anything we/they can not do that will make Republicans not do something. These squishy Dems and pseudos are not simply timid or ambitious or greedy. They are out of time, living and working in a world that doesn't exist anymore. This is a fighting moment, and it's going to get messy.
If we're actually going to have the conversation about how to behave at a demonstration of solidarity and resistance, I offer my personal perspective:
First: Resist. Obstruct. Protest. Lots of folks say "Protest! but peacefully!" and I agree, but it's not only up to us. I say, let the cops supply the violence--they're experts--but be prepared. There are trainings that can help. If you are given a choice, respond in a way that keeps you safe. We have a lot of protests ahead of us, and we're going to need everybody.
Also, in my opinion, if you are dressed in black from head to toe, masked and throwing bottles at the cops or burning cars, you're not helping. You're just another problem for me.
Second: If at any point you can't tell the difference between your protest and a middle school lunchroom on a particularly bad day, check yourself. We're fighting over the future of the world not who talked shit about whose boyfriend.
Third: Opinions differ, but I say wave whatever the fuck flag you want. Just for reference:
However, and this is important, don't automatically assume that following these or any other rules will protect you from asshole behavior from them. We may very well get gassed for standing still, or for not standing still. We may be pushed, hit with batons and "less-lethal" rounds for not doing exactly what we're told or in spite of doing what we're told. It's what fascists do. Prepare.
We didn't make the world; we're just trying to make it into something we can live in. And Democratic leaders who are afraid to get their hands dirty should just shut the fuck up and take a vacation.
And, if they are thinking they can just lay low, or put out press releases trying to hoodwink us into thinking they're actually doing something, and then pop back up once this is "over"-- either to take charge again after we've saved the country or to lead the post-apocalypse resistance after the catastrophe they helped create--they are delusional and fuck them.
That's it.
Be careful. Take a moment to appreciate the importance of what we are trying to do.
See you out there.